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Infidelity: What every couple should know?
Infidelity is a romantic relationship outside of marriage. It is one of the most painful experiences a betrayed spouse can encounter in life. Precaution to avoid infidelity.
Infidelity can be triggered when any of the intimate emotional needs are met outside of marriage.
These are your 4 intimate emotional needs (never let anyone fulfill those needs for your spouse)
1. In a conversation
2. Affection
3. Recreation
4. Companionship
When one intimate emotional need is met outside of marriage, the other intimate emotional needs are not far behind.
It starts off as a:
1. Friendship
2. Take place at work or at church
3. Someone in the family
4. Going out with a double date couple
and fall for the other date
Infidelity is an addiction.
Abstinence is the most effective treatment for an addiction.
1. They may have to quit their job or get transferred to another job.
2. They have to be separated from their lover in order to overcome the addiction.
3. Most of time they will continue to repeat it like a drug addict and they don't understand the problem, they have to take precautions to not walk down that lane again.
Most marriages stay together, and most of the time never recover from it.
You must meet your spouse's intimate and emotional need.
Don't ever let someone meet any of your 4 intimate emotional needs for your spouse.
If you and your spouse are not meeting each other's emotional needs you must tell your spouse that I am very upset that our emotional needs are not met, but I am not going to let anyone else meet them for me.
I am not going to let anyone to talk:
1. Intimate things towards me.
2. Not spending any of your recreational time with each other.
3. Not giving any of your affection to another or make love.
I have reserve that exclusively for you.
Be radically honest with each other if you ever begin feeling attracted to someone else.
If you tell your spouse the feelings you are having, it's going to nip that relationship in the bud.
Take precautions.
These extraordinary precautions are well worth the effort.
I recommend not only to heal the betrayed spouse's wound, but it will also heal the marriage.
Step 1:
1. Never see or talk to your lover again.
2. Create extraordinary precaution to prevent chance encounters.
3. If you see the person you are at risk triggering the affair all over again, and every time your spouse sees that person they are going to re-experienced the pain and the suffering.
4. Expect a period of withdraw that includes depression and uncharacteristic
madness for about 3-6 months.
The wife or husband is not going to be happy for awhile. You are going through a withdraw.
Step 2:
1. Create a successful marital relationship by achieving the 3 goals of a marriage. It takes up to 2 years to regain your faith in your spouse and to be restored of recovery.
2. When someone hunts you, use the steps as well and avoid all contact with the other person, and prepare for a withdraw period.
3. Implement the 3 goals of marriage by learning how to make all decisions with each other in mind. Avoid Love Busters and learn to meet each other's emotional needs.
Successful Recovery Plan Starts Here.
All contact must end. Wayward spouse assumes full responsibility
rebuilding details and revealing your plan to independently prevent reoccurrence.
Detailed Plans To Fall In Love
What are your needs and what are his needs to fulfill each other's needs?
Now is a new day.
These are the choices you will fulfill for husband/wife.
1. Affection
2. Sexual Fulfillment
3. A conversation
4. Recreation Companionship
5. Honesty and Open Nest
6. Financial Support
7. Physical Attraction
8. Domestic Support
9. Family Commitment
10. Admiration
What is the most sufficient way to develop love units for your husband/wife?
In 1978, they got rid of the Law of Infidelity of the books. May God bless your union.
In Overcoming A Police Matter.
When an incident go wrong, where an innocent person's life was taken from them by force of that policeman or policewoman, & if the public brings an awareness of the officer wrong doings, it appear that the department would transfer/fire that officer to another department that will not affect his records or pay.
The solution to this matter is to bring the officer in front of a jury so if any video/photos of his actions shows his ill conduct, he can be charge and made as an example.
By Patricia P. Clair
Check Out
These Incredible
Movies:
The Unlisted (What they do to your kids in school)
The Firm (Tom Cruise)
No Way Out (Kevin Costner),
The Bourne Legacy,
The Happening,
(Red Dawn 2012),
The Crazies ,
Geostorm,
Inferno,
Olympus has Fallen,
It's a Wonderful Life
and the movie called
2012.
The True Essence of
Authority is that God
blessed you & give you
His Divine Instructions
for your Promise to come to PASS NOW!
IN THIS SEASON. I
DECLARE IT IN THE
NAME OF JEHOVAL.
AMEN! AND AMEN!
GOD DID IT FOR
ABRAHAM, ISAAC &
REBECCA & HE WILL
NOW DO IT FOR YOU!
EMERGENCY ALERT!!!
Many people are having problems with their cellphones & landline phones worldwide. Black screen pops up from out of nowhere, as you're talking. Maybe your phone just go dead & comes back on later. Many believe that they are getting ready to switch almost everybody on
the 5G PLAN. God revealed to me that
they can take your phone & connect all your electronics & appliances that's in the wall sockets to spark a fire. There were a man on the news some weeks ago & had his cell phone in his shirt front pocket and the
phone caught fire.
They could be testing it out when your phones are going in and out. For proof check out the movie
called, "G FORCE". You get it! "G FORCE
MOVIE". You can go on NETFLIX, YOUTUBE or watch it on DVD. Or pull up the official trailer on YOUTUBE before they pull it! It's an animation movie for kids & the whole family. Showing you what the largest
electronics/ appliances company
are planning on you
through your up to date electronics.
We will talk about
ROBOTS later: Watch
"I ROBOT" PLAYED BY WILL SMITH. He
did an excellent job
in playing in this 90(s) movie about how the gov is going
to use robots to destroy people. My
interpretations of this
movie is that they are going to make these
robots friendly, convient & popular like they have done
for the pets. Which is
another story.Always
remember where your help comes from.
MAKING MEALS THAT STRETCH:
Did you know you can
make a meal that can
hole you and your family for days. In the book of Daniel,
he ate stew & he
was satisfied. You
can make cabbage tomatoe soup. This is brain food. Under $20. Go to YOUTUBE and put in cabbage
tomatoe soup & Anti
Inflammatory Foods.
COMING SOON: THE SURVIVAL SKILLS
How Will You Cope
or Survive in
AN EMERGENCY?
What is your PREPAREDNESS PLAN?
Learn How To Cope or Survive In An Emergency.
WATCH A MOVIE
WITH ME.
THE MOVIE FOR THE WEEK
IS CALLED "EVAN ALMIGHTY."
For Emergencies
Always have an emergency backpack, when emergency takes place and when you are being asked to evacuate.
These are the things you should already have in your bag.
1. Perishable Foods
2. Bottled Water
3. Important Documents
4. Family Photos
5. Wipes
6. Toilet Paper
7. Duck Tape
8. Filters
9. First aid kit
10. Flares/Flashlight
11. Change of Clothes
12. Mini toolbox set
13. Batteries
14. Knife/Weapon
15. Radio
16. Matches/Lighter
17. Rope
18. Bible
19. Map
During a Disaster if you are in a major city you should be
at least 200 miles away from all major cities.
BE AWARE OF YOUR NEIGHBOURS AND THE FEMA CAMPS!
Avoid all major roads and be alert of other people.
TAKE CHARGE! HANDLING A CRISIS AND MOVING FORWARD WITH THE LORD.
"We would like to live as we once lived, but history
will not permit it" John F. Kennedy
CONTENTS ........
COPING WITH A CRISIS ......................................
TYPICAL REACTIONS TO A CRISIS ........................
DEALING WITH FEAR ..........................................
HANDLING ANXIETY ...........................................
OVERCOMING DEPRESSION ................................
COPING WITH GRIEF AND LOSS ..........................
DEALING WITH INSOMNIA ..................................
RECOGNIZING ACUTE STRESS DISORDER AND
POSTTRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER ...................
GETTING ON WITH YOUR LIFE .............................
BALANCING BODY, MIND & SPIRIT .......................
SPIRITUALITY CAN HELP YOU COPE ......................
THE EFFECTS OF THE MEDIA ...............................
HELPING CHILDREN COPE ...................................
WHAT REALLY MATTERS .....................................
BEING READY FOR A DISASTER ...........................
PLANS TO MAKE BEFORE A DISASTER ..................
BEING PREPARED FOR CERTAIN DISASTERS .........
WEATHER DISASTERS ........................................
BOMB THREATS .................................................
BIOLOGICAL TERRORISM ....................................
EXPLOSIONS AND FIRES .....................................
HARMFUL CHEMICAL EXPOSURES .........................
GENERAL TIPS TO STAY SAFE ..............................